My ex's grandparents were raging alcoholics and her dad never had a drink a day in his life but otherwise displayed all the personality flaws of an alcoholic and her mom was a codependent/BPD herself.
Every time I get a little sad about the relationship being over I think back to her parents and count my blessings I never have to be in the same room with those people again.
Has "conservative" value system about dating / relationships / family. I think deep down you know that your gut feeling is right about this girl.
Loyal, she could go through fire and water to be together. She might be cool, she might be feminine, but that's a LONG laundry list of red flags my friend.