Adult pregnant dating game
If they want to have wild stories about dating and sex to reminisce over when they’re only sleeping with the same person, they need to do it now.
On the other hand, she wants to enjoy her twenties and go on dates without wondering if she can see herself with them in five years time.
The fertility countdown ticks away constantly in the head of every 20-something-year-old girl, reminding her of the menopause, IVF and adoption.It doesn’t matter if she wants to have children or not – she can still hear the damn countdown.1) Found a job we love where we can take a long maternity leave and still have a desk to come back to.Preferably with a chance of promotion 2) Made enough money to afford childcare so we can keep on working post-baby 3) Found someone to have baby with 4) Figured out if we actually want a baby 5) Had enough relationships, dates and sexual experiences to keep us going till we retire, i.e. Figured out how to do this in between climbing the career ladder and earning some money 7) Fulfilled all major dreams that can’t be done once we have kids and mortgages 8) Got a mortgage Not everyone’s list looks like this, but so many of my friends and contemporaries think along these lines: How can we do it all now, so that we can take a bit of time out later to have a family, or just to figure things out?
Will we ever manage to get to the end of our lists, and how will number eight ever happen when we’re still shopping in Primark?“There’s definitely a huge pressure on young people these days,” says Anna, 26.