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I have found so much freedom in realizing that I don’t have to explain or justify my decision to draw boundaries with my parents or with anyone else, to anyone. There is a reason that this offends certain people but the reason may not be what you think it is.
There is a reason that some people don’t accept my decision to disengage from my parents and family.
People who learned love from being loved say things like “HOW can parents treat their children like that?
” and they don’t understand why or how these parents could communicate such rejection towards their own children.
Statements such as “but they are your parents” or “I’m sure your parents did the best they could” are not flung in my face by people who know what loving parents really are.
Since I have come out of the fog about the whole dysfunctional family system I have met people who have a whole different reaction to my story; I have met people who say things like “OH MY GOSH, No wonder you don’t have a relationship with them anymore”.
The people that have a need to stick up for the dysfunctional family system are the ones that have judged me the hardest.
It certainly isn’t what I originally thought it was.
For a long time I agreed but I have come to realize that this conclusion isn’t as accurate as I used to think it was.
I have discovered that people who have or have had loving parents actually do understand what I am talking about; it is the people still stuck in defending their own abusive /discounting parents that fight the hardest against what I am saying.