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So now you've done that, shown her that you're awesome, good in bed and non-needy..now? Don't "push" for more time together...that's what a boyfriend or a beta does! If she likes to feel desired, tell her that was so hot you're going to masturbate thinking about it later. This nearly 100% mitigates drama, most of which comes from female uncertainty towards where she stands.
You must always give her the perception that you have other options (whether you do or not is practically irrelevant) and that you're spending just as much time with the other options as with her (at least at the FB level). That will send her sexual narcissism into overdrive and she will love you for it. It's not that she wants to be monogamous (she doesn't), it's that she's just trying to figure out where she fits in your life. Then you two can enjoy what you have without any bonus expectations or surprises. If at some point she decides she no longer wants to be a part of what you're doing (either a NEXT or a shit-test, which are really the same thing in this instance), you tell her how much fun you've had with her, how much you've appreciated the fantastic times you've spent together, and send her on her way! She's already invested and you don't to prove how awesome you are by keeping her hamster-wheel busy (at least not in this sense).
All the benefits of being in a relationship minus the bullshit like not doing enough for Valentine's Day or her birthday, not spending 3 months salary on a stupid ring, and not spending enough quality time with her.
If you want to have awesome fuckbuddies in your life, you better be a damned good one yourself!
Here are some tips to help you meet those ends and become the kind of guy that women WANT as a fuckbuddy.
Whether you want Monogamous or Nonmonogamous relationships, the same guidelines apply because (hopefully) if you seek an LTR you are still starting the girl off at the FB or Friends with Benefits level for a while before you upgrade her.
So even with all those things in place, you may STILL get pumped-and-dumped, regardless of how well she gamed you beforehand and made you think she wanted something consistent, or blah blah blah whatever.We're just talking about things here that increase your chances of making it happen again, don't fool yourself into thinking that you ultimately control the situation. Always make her come (do your best to come every time too, this feeds her sexual narcissism and she thinks it's hot when you do. After you hook up each time, keep your "planning scheduling mind" at bay and just let the chips fall where they may. You can compliment her, tell her how awesome she is, tell her how much you appreciate the friendship you two have, or give her something she really appreciates (which you'll know if you listen when she speaks).I am going to assume you've seduced her (or she's seduced you) so that you've had sex for the first time already.Now keep in mind...whether she wants to be a returning customer or not is largely out of your control.
That being said, there are some things you can leverage in your favor in order to up your odds of getting her to come back, and after you've fucked a few times, you can then enter into a real FB relationship with her. This should be common sense but I still feel the need to point it out here. That comes across to women as desperation and neediness. She should be laughing, with the two of you touching each other, the entire time you're together (or most of the time).I used to make this mistake myself, believing that if I gave her the hint that I wasn't "just using her for sex"--ie, that I wanted to see her again--somehow that would make things better. Even if that's your mentality--that you want to see her again--you must understand where SHE is coming from, how SHE will view your actions, and what gives you the best chance of making that happen (hence this post). As Tubarao once said, "if I'm with a woman, and I'm not touching her and she's not laughing, I'm probably dead." Learn it, love it, live it.