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Try Collarspace.com, large dating site, and Fetlife.com, the latter will give you information about local events as well , amongst other things.Be careful, a lot of ignorant people and some scammers on Collar Space. Fetlife is more like facebook for kinksters, with a lot of bells and whistles.
Collarme has relatively few women and a majority of those are pro dommes. However, you can join groups with a local focus and groups focused on kinks that interest you.
It seems inappropriate to post that on normal dating sites.
The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.
Don't just go "hey i want this and that, and you are sub, so you have to give it to me. Your search results with collarspace are limited to say the least, and there are plenty of scammers there.
I am uninterested in going to Fetlife munch's because of some social anxiety, but that seems the only way to maybe meet someone. There are not huge numbers of people and it is a long process to find the right people.However, most kinky people have to get out to events. There are also some big kink events that are great if you can afford to travel.