Dating aloof man Tease is in public chat
It’s almost as if women have sexual impulses at odds with what they claim they desire. (Girl’s replies are on the right.) Underneath the screenshot, she wails her plaintive plea. i really want to get to know him better but he is always so busy with work and lives thirty three miles away. i think this could really work out but i dont want to move all the way out there and have my heart broken. “Great connection.” “I’m really falling for him.” “I want to get to know him better.” “Should I move closer? And with that, another ten thousand niceguy, date-paying, considerate, chivalrous, white knighting, hard-working, emotionally available, respectful, attentive beta males face-palmed. Perhaps Bring the Movies Man, Skittles Man, and Nah Man should get together for a book reading of their collected wisdom. Afterwards, the flush-faced girls in attendance will spend three hours dissecting those three words and shifting inconspicuously in their seats.
First, you might like this article: The issues here are space and validation.
Then, inevitably, the girl starts to get upset, frustrated, confused, etc. My point here: My goal is to maintain the stage before exclusivity and relationship happens. I’m clear on this and it’s practical for where I am in my life right now.
Even better are the site’s readers pleading with the girls who submit their badboys’ hieroglyphic texts for public decoding that the guy in question is “playing a game” and is “no good for her”, which naturally is only going to serve to deepen the girls’ infatuations. One tried and true method to make a girl chase you is to speak (and text) in mysterious monosyllabic code, to avoid early emotional entanglement, and to act like there are another twenty women lined up outside the door to service your autocratic cunt carver.
(It’s funny that, compared to men who only need to look at a woman to know if they’d like to date her, women need a team of advisors to tell her whether a guy is worth fretting about. ) For a sterling example of the Jerkboy Jumbotron genre, check out this one. we have a great connection, and i’m really falling for him. In other words, to do the exact opposite of everything feminists, women in general, and your mom tell you to do.
A new website, hetexted.com, is a gold mine of confirmation for the validity of game concepts.
Girls post screenshots of their text conversations with men they like (or in some cases, don’t like) and ask the studio audience what it all means.
I know she’s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we’re together it’s nice, but there’s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more “official”.
I’m not looking for that and when that starts coming up, I scale my presence in her life back considerably – I don’t want things to turn into a relationship and therefore I withdraw. I’ve pushed her away and now I’m going to lose her. my goal being that I’d like to return to “stasis” – that perfect sweet spot of comfortable company and sexual satisfaction without having to tie myself down to any relationship.