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That is: All women want children—as one gynecologist told me, "That's what we're here for."But I don't want to.
I stayed with my first serious boyfriend for seven years.
These men were in their mid-to-late 30s and early 40s. And then they each promptly sabotaged the birth control that I was very strict about.
However, I was In addition to checking the "no kids" box on dating sites, I would clearly bring up my childfree decision sometime in the first few dates. Condoms have kept me baby-free my entire sexually active life. When used perfectly, as I have always done, they are very effective against pregnancy and STIs.
But they do require that the man not them in the middle of sex, which both of these guys did, not letting me know that they were doing it (and even worse, lying when I asked if the condom was still on).They put my health and theirs at risk—attempting to impregnate me against my will, purposefully.After a few dates with a new man, the inevitable would happen: "You will be such a great mom."Baffled, I'd then be left with my gabbling mouth (I'm not talented with the pithy response).Once again, I'm expected to say my scripted part, smile, and everyone will know exactly where they stand.
When we broke up and I entered the NYC dating carousel, I was 30 and had no idea what I was doing.
But, contrary to all the horror stories I'd heard, I had fun.