Dating separated divorcing man
I ended up trying to live up to everything she was, cos he just kept on talking about her, how she dressed, how she had her hair.Crazy now I look back, we ended up breaking up and they got back together again, I don't blame him for anything at all though, I didnt want to stand in the way of someone's marriage so I bowed out gracefully!Not sure on this one - I think I would but like another lady said I'd have to be very sure they were completely over and know what their current relationship was like if they had kids.My ex husband starting chatting to and emailing a girl he liked while we were still married and together, then told her her he'd left, then about a month later he left, and another month after that he's introducing her to our kids without my knowledge.
It seems a shame to pass over someone who is waiting for their divorce. He was so hung up on his wife (she left him suddenly) and thought he was ready for a new relationship.
It can take 5 years for divorce if it is contested. He used to call me by her name by accident regularly, as did his friends.
My brother in- law worked with someone who was separated for two months and had two kids.
We went on a blind date and have been together 9 years, married 6 and have a darling 2 year old!
Must admit, someone seperated would not have been in my consideration before, but as I found out, you really can't judge til you know all the reasons. If I were single i would want to be absolutely sure they were not still together and I would want them to have been separated for a while and know what the relationship with the ex is like.
Glad I'm happily married as dating with kids sounds like a mine field!