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I guess you can say I’m in the throes of a major midlife crisis.As Dolly Parton once famously quipped, “It takes a lot of money to look this cheap.” Because of all of this, I’m constantly called the “c-word” — that “c-word” being “cougar.” I do really hate that word.When my BFF told me the guy was a comedian and then sent me his picture, I was immediately interested. In my act, I start by addressing my age, my failed marriages, and the fact that I’m constantly at the hair salon and Ulta.
Not that it was very different from the responses I got from men my age — they were just far less eager and often downright aloof.One guy I dated on and off I dubbed “Copperfield” (as in magician David Copperfield), as he’d disappear for weeks at a time between dates.I also had more than one man my age ask if I’d like to enter into a “friends with benefits” arrangement. My prospects were drying up rapidly and I was getting increasingly discouraged.I was still poking around on Tinder and Match when my best girlfriend told me about a guy. I dated one when I was in my early 20s and he’s still one of my best friends.
Falling for someone is a process that comes with all kinds of questions along the way.Regardless of the answers, most of us like to believe that love can conquer any differences. An age gap can come with some challenges, just like all relationships come with their own challenges.