Difference between best friends and dating
But, if you’re serious about her, and her feelings, then you’ll move slowly.“The woman feeling that she is being courted is important,” says Nicole.“It’s important that she feels special and that you break your friendship routine and take her out on dates.Be honest and tell her that you would love to meet a girl with her qualities. If her response makes it obvious she wants to stay in the friend zone, it won’t feel like rejection because you didn’t ask her directly.”Also, on a personal note (did I mention I have a lot of experience in this area? If she’s not giving you an obvious sign that she’s interested, then she’s probably not.
If you absolutely must be certain about her feelings, then be direct.But, as Nicole warns, do not approach your friend when copious amounts of booze have been consumed. She also adds, “Be sure you are ready to get into a relationship, if you do take it to the next level.I think often times when friends become lovers, the dating phase is skipped over because you know each other well enough that the “first date” often feels more like the fifteenth.Assumptions are made and important questions aren’t asked because, well, things are blurry.
And when the sex part gets between two hella good friends, it can go either way: super awkward or super awesome (as nakedness often goes down).
’ Start talking more seriously that you are looking for a relationship in general.