If you want to meet someone alpha, try a sports bar. But don’t go to a monster truck rally ONLY to meet a monster truck fan, you should still go to things you would find fun regardless if you meet someone new. Potential dates are everywhere that you are, so don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation, make a comment, or ask a question when the opportunity arises.Ask for directions, ask someone if they have the time, JUST TALK! Practice “Power Posing” by assuming postures that reflect confidence. Get yourself on a dating app if you want to remind yourself that it’s much better to live your life all alone until the sweet release of death. So comfortable in your own skin that you feel like you maybe want to find someone to share your life with?Running clubs, intramural sports leagues, and improv classes are all activities that everyone could genuinely be passionate about. Or, step outside your interest zone just a tad, to create the potential to meet someone who doesn’t exactly share your interests.
But seriously though, Tinder, Happn, Plenty of Fish, Match…it doesn’t matter which one (but, let’s be honest, if you’re on one, you’re probably on all four, right? You don’t have to pretend you’re sexy Do you know how physically and mentally draining it is trying to pretend you’re the bright, breezy, charming super-smart, super-funny sex machine you need to be to dazzle dudes? Maybe you’re holding back from ordering two desserts just for yourself on your first date (but really, you do need two, because if someone put a gun to your head and asked you if you’d rather eat a brownie or a waffle, you’d just tell them to pull the trigger because that shit is impossible). Shaving your legs time and time again for dates that are just not worth it.Well, guess what, no one has improved – everyone is still single. Can you tell I begrudge every Tinder date I shaved my legs for?