Friend dating a loser
Since she’s completely disregarding your advice, it sounds like she just wants someone to listen to her complain and nothing more.While that’s fine to do to friends once in a while, it’s not fair for her to do this to you all the time.If you’re not going to listen to me, I can’t keep talking about it because it’s frustrating for me.” Let her know how much you love and care about her and how much you hate seeing her get treated this way.Tell her that you’re a little insulted that she completely ignores your advice and if she’s not going to listen to you, you can’t keep listening to her.It’s called tough love, baby, and it sounds like your friend needs it.I totally get that you don’t want to hurt her and you want to be a good friend, but the fact of the matter is that she isn’t being a great friend to you – and you definitely need to speak up.The next time your friend comes to you to complain about this guy, say something like this: “I’ve already told you how I feel about him and I’ve already given you the same advice I’ve been giving you for a year and a half.Last year, my friend lost her v-card to her boyfriend after one month of dating. They broke up three months after having sex, but ever since then, he’s been stringing her along.
Your friend is stuck in a crappy situation, which is party her fault, and she’s making it your problem also.
It sounds like your friend just really needs someone to talk to and she feels comfortable talking to you about it for whatever reason.