Im 20 and dating a 17 year old
How do I tell my mom I'm in a relationship with a 30 year old? Please do not think im some desperate teenager and she is some desperate 30 year old.
I have shown friends pictures of her, asking them 'hey how do old do you think this girl is? I tell them that she is 30 and they can't believe it.
When you realize that her kid is only 9 years younger than you (a smaller difference than you and her), you'll tell yourself that it isn't right.
Every day we get closer and closer and things are getting extremely serious, I want her to meet my parents. If your friends can't tell her age, why would your parents be able to? I'm somewhat surprised she hasn't asked where you go when you sleep around, regardless though, carefully obviously.
There's no need to throw that out there if you think they're going to be awkward as fuck about it. She'll probably view it quite cautiously, but the fact you're still dating and going strong is a testament to the seriousness of which you both view the relationship.
They support me being with her, probably because they think she is hot.
I've been in many relationships before with people my age, 2 1-year long relationships and a couple 5+ months ones here and there so I have been around my age before.
I am an 18 year old male dating a 30 year old female. As often as possible, I will go to her house and we will sleep together and hangout and just have fun.
On the weekends when we both do not work, we go out on dates and such.
Broach the subject when you're both alone, and before you bring the partner over; That she has a kid adds an additional layer of difficulty though. Go through dinner or whatever you want to do to introduce her and don't bring her age up, but don't shy away from it if it does because if neither of you have an issue with it what any one else thinks doesn't matter.
Just introduce her, your mother will figure out quickly what is going on and decides whether or not she is ok with it. I would leave out the part about the kid though, that might freak the shit out of your parents This.