Men with no interest in dating
If they are your One, that would make you their One. Being interested in someone fills me with so much electricity. That's because people like us jump fully into something or we leave it alone. And, let's be honest, there may be some residual hurt feelings and bruised confidence from lovers past.
Starting something new can be really scary, especially when there are memories of just how much it sucks when things don't work out. If things go like they are supposed to go, that furry little bundle of cuddles will have a much shorter life span than your own. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile.
No matter what, the person you first met will never be the same person you are with in five years or even five months. As people, we should always be growing and changing.
You probably did everything "right" and still..you are. First off, I'm not convinced that there is only one person for you. I think we form relationships based on timing and chemistry.
Anything that you may have wanted to do, but always held yourself back..it. It's time to rediscover that light behind your eyes. If you're content in your own solitude, that's okay.
We put up these mental and emotional roadblocks to protect ourselves. Even looking at someone across the room and thinking that he's kinda cute can open up the door to all sorts of heartbreak foresight thoughts. Even when you are taking your brand new puppy home for the first time, you know that in 10 or so years you will go through gut wrenching loss. Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did.
Even knowing that you will experience pain at some point, it's totally worth the decade of love and happiness.