Nice guys guide to dating
Women aren't usually romantically attracted to "nice" guys. And most people's efforts to be sexual with someone are conflated with their efforts to be good to someone. Be a good person, but create sexual tension at all times. Sex is first a physical act meant to transfer intense emotional energy climaxing in a harmonic exchange between sensation and emotion.I had to be the one to say, "Dude, you never made it sexual, you never made it exciting, you spent all your time making shit comfortable and where is the spark then? It wasn’t because:- Kindness isn’t sexy (it is)- No good deed goes unpunished (there are plenty of clichés to counter this one, among them “goodness is its own reward”)- Women are all a bunch of masochists (they are not)So why do women always end up breaking the hearts of nice guys and giving the best years of their lives to Bad Boys (TM) (read: assholes)? This means that you play games with them, tease a little, make conversation a bit challenging. And it is not really about them, it's about the "nice guy"So this guy I know. Instead, he was the one she talked to about other cute guys who flirted with her. Nice/friendly is often conflated with easy and supportive. People want to feel they can do stuff for themselves and to feel that you not only know that but have fun challenging them to do it.He is smart, fit, relatively wealthy, helpful, thoughtful, quietly charming, and possessed of a fabulously dry sense of humor. He was spending a whole lot of time with this girl. My friend was the one who came driving up in his shining Toyota Camry to rescue her when the chain came off of her bike. I know what you are thinking, this doesn't apply to me, that girl is just a bitch. Tension is required for sexual interest to blossom.
If you've got a question about anything related to singleness or living the single life, please submit it to : Have you ever noticed that the most attractive and interesting women seem to be attracted to men who don't treat them very well?
And that the "nicer" you are to a woman the more she often seems to act like "just a friend" to you?