Yes, fantasies can be healthy, but not when you expect them to completely translate into your real life.
People are naturally imperfect, so there’s no reason for you to expect Hollywood endings and celebrity looks from your online partner.
That’s why once these relationships move into the offline world, some of them are destined to crumble.
They realize that they cannot physically live the online fantasy they have created.
The solution to these raised expectations is to keep your online interactions grounded in real life.
Sometimes you also worry if your partner will show up at all.