Pregnant dating baby isnt mine rules for dating someone new


02-Jan-2015 16:45

) the fact that I just did a post about whether men should be forced to pay for children they didn’t want. He knocked you up, he completely regrets it, and he wants to run. But the short-term nature of your relationship, the personality conflicts, the making up and breaking up, the trust issues, and the post-pregnancy pull-away give me all the signs I need to conclude that this is NOT your future husband and that you should NOT be wasting one more second on him.I want to shelve that discussion for now, because my feelings about that are irrelevant to my feelings towards your own dilemma. I hope you can see in retrospect that he was never really your boyfriend. A stranger that you feel you loved, but a stranger, nonetheless.I recently started dating a guy a couple of months ago; we met on a dating site back in January and were talking for about four months before we actually met. Well, we had gotten into a fight because of his trust issues.His ex wife screwed with his head and cheated on him a lot so, he brought those trust issues into our relationship.We both took a couple of days to evaluate where we are and where we want to be. When we first started dating he called me babe or sweetie all of the time, texted me, and initiated conversations via text. I love being together with him but, he doesn’t want to spend the night and now when I text him they are short answers and I feel like I’m bothering him.He works a lot of hours and has 2 kids so I understand that he can’t always talk, but he just seems so cold and distant when we aren’t together.So are the first three weeks of every relationship. You do know that three weeks isn’t a really significant amount of time, right? Did you have a spontaneous moment of passion without any protection? You slept with that stranger, he knocked you up, he’s distancing himself and you’re still intent on ignoring his colossal flaws and trying to forge a relationship with him. The only decision you have is whether you’re going to keep the baby.You do know that you don’t get to see all sides of a person for a few years, right? No matter what happened, you’re in the same place: you’re pregnant and you’ve got a man who doesn’t want to have any part in your life. If you’re not, then you can terminate your pregnancy and your man simultaneously.

This is a big red flag, which you probably could have seen coming if you didn’t make him your boyfriend so fast. This is where it starts getting sad and I can’t maintain any level of snark. Listen, Jules, I’m really sorry you’re hurting right now. This guy does not want a future with you, nor does he want to support a baby for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, you can’t MAKE a man want to be this way. So understand, Jules, if you choose to bring this baby into the world, you are also choosing to give yourself and your baby a great hardship: a tempestuous, mistrustful, busy absentee father who has no interest in being a part of either of your lives.So now, you’re in love with a man you’ve barely met, and you have your first fight! You’re experiencing what everyone has experienced before you – the feeling of getting your heart broken by an unrequited love whom you overestimated due to chemistry. If it sounds like I’m weighing heavily in one direction, that’s because I am. All I wanted to make clear was the consequences of your decisions. I hope you make the right call for you and your family. I agree with Evan 100% you have a choice, if you choose to terminate you can proceed with your life, find the man who will be your husband then have a child with him when you are both ready to have a family.We made up and got back together and things were good for a few more weeks and he became upset that I had checked my email on a couple of dating site that I used before I met him.He still has his profile up and I didn’t make a big deal about it but he didn’t want mine up. The day we got into the fight I learned I was pregnant.

I am scared to have this baby and him not want to build a life with me. I am so confused and I am starting to fall in love with him.

I don’t want to put all this work and energy and love into this relationship if he is just not longer interested and is just going to walk away. If I wasn’t pregnant with his baby I wouldn’t worry, but now that I am I just want to know that he will be there for me and with me. Dear Jules, I’m answering your question in spite of (because of?



Unlike other MILF cam websites, at Sexcamly all of our mature ladies are real people just like you who love to spend their spare time getting naked.… continue reading »


Read more

Nevertheless young Saudis find ways to go around the rules.… continue reading »


Read more

This modern-day real-world treasure hunt is the perfect adventure. Take a dip, make a sandcastle, play a game of beach volleyball, or just totally chill out together while soaking up some sun this summer.… continue reading »


Read more

What you wouldn’t expect is for me to be married to an Indian guy—a guy who’s shorter than me, and dare I say it, doesn’t come from a wealthy upper class family. The marriage prospects of our other children will be ruined.… continue reading »


Read more

Once you have achieved a certain level of success, it can be harder than ever to find someone interested in you for who you are and not what you have.… continue reading »


Read more

Whether you're looking for a meaningful relationship or something more casual with no strings attached, we have sites full of like-minded people to increase your chances of finding the One..Ones!… continue reading »


Read more

I spent many a golden afternoon at my small New England liberal-arts college debating with friends the merits of leg-shaving and whether or not we’d take our husband’s surname.… continue reading »


Read more

They allege that he poke noses,insults and throws tantrums at her crew while the love smitten actress turns a blind eye.… continue reading »


Read more