Related: 3 Clues You’re Dating a Keeper Breaking a behavior pattern is never easy, especially when it comes to dating.Perhaps the first and most important step to take is to be honest with yourself.You need to be able to identify and acknowledge that you have, in fact, found yourself stuck in a negative dating cycle.Another important point is that you not get stuck feeling bad about yourself. Finding a significant other can be quite a challenge.It’s kind of like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole; you may make it work but it will never be quite right. Love may indeed be right around the corner, across the street or, sometimes, it is actually right in front of you.
He talked about how we humans tend to repeat the same patterns of behavior in our lives over and over.
He called this propensity ‘repetition repulsion.’ While he didn’t apply this label to dating, in particular, it is clear why it so obviously applies.