Hi ladies, I don’t want to sound critical but I really think you are narrow-minded. She only has use of her biceps, wrists and right index finger.Just like every other love site, you only talk about people who have what some of us do not: good looks, legs to walk on, triceps to lift themselves, ten fingers to type with. Yes, I am envious and angry and grumpy, and I feel I have a right to be. Because of her disability she cannot get out of her chair independently or dress herself waist down. Anonymous Dear Anonymous, We believe that many of the issues we talk about here are just as relevant to disabled people as to anyone else. We do, however, want to call attention to someone who refused to give up in advance, who is also a quadriplegic and who is both attractive and sexually active. When she was 14 the neighborhood boys were diving off the top of a schoolyard slide that had been put out in a lake. I wish more of you relationship counselors would address real relationship problems rather than these pseudo problems. We hope her story can serve as inspiration for you in the future. Brit and Catherine Tiffiny Carlson’s Story Tiffiny (Tiff) is a C5-6 quadriplegic from a diving accident.I am a quadriplegic from a diving accident, and I don’t see how I could possibly use any of your information. She initially had a catheter in her urethra and a drainage bag to keep her bladder empty. Her injury left her paralyzed in her legs, hands, and triceps.After camp that year she returned to high school more confident than ever, and she started to dress in fashionable clothes.I was abandoned by my friends, and, worst of all, ignored by boys”, says Tiff. I tried often, but my right index finger (the only one functional enough for masturbation) wasn’t enough,” Tiff recalls.
But we are surprised that you believe that you will never get a sex partner. “I wanted to show off to the neighborhood boys,” Tiff says. We understand that you may have problems that others don’t. Being a trained dancer Tiff did a swan dive, hitting her head on the bottom.At first Tiff did not cope well with her condition.“The three years that followed the accident were hell. “As a teenager stuck in the suburbs, I had no vibrator, and I couldn’t use my fingers to get myself off.
I would happily go out with all the world’s narcissists if only they wanted me.
Later she learned how to drain her bladder herself via a tiny hole in her bellybutton.