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If you weren’t interested, you shouldn’t have fucking replied at all! I hate that men think they can talk to women like that.They should be publicly shamed.”Other women on the Facebook thread agreed, saying they had similar experiences and wanted to see the perpetrators punished in some way, like through a public Instagram account. ”That Instagram account became Bye Felipe, Tweten’s crowdsourced menagerie of mankind’s worst specimens.One day recently, Alexandra Tweten was browsing Facebook when a woman she knew posted a screenshot of a recent exchange she’d had on Ok Cupid.“I want to message you, but I’m afraid,” the man said.The woman didn't respond for 12 hours, after which the man followed up with one word: "Asshole."As these things often do, the missive prompted a piling on of similar tales of inscrutably weird or profoundly rude dating messages.The name is a play on “Bye Felicia,” a meme used to signify that someone has left a party, and they won’t be missed.Since creating it Monday of last week, Tweten has received more than two dozen submissions.Rather than ask out the one cute girl laying out on the quad, however, the man can ask 50. Bombarded by all these "admirers," many women feel overwhelmed and leave scores of messages unreturned.“What in society makes them think that it's okay to message someone like that? There’s Straight White Boys Texting, which is exactly what it sounds like: (“You should come eat this dick for desert.” [sic]) Minority women seem to have it especially rough; there are a number of sites devoted to exposing the uniquely disgusting bile that seems to spew forth when certain white men attempt to woo Asian women. In the words of Elizabeth Bennet, "You are too hasty, sir."* * *Online dating is just like regular dating—if it had been sprinkled with radioactive dust and left out in the sun to get bigger, louder, and warped.
Tweten posted an aggressive note she had recently received from a man who had sent her the same Ok Cupid line three times in the course of a month, asking her if she’d like to chat.
After ignoring it repeatedly, Tweten finally wrote back, “No.”His response: “WHY THE FUCK NOT? “If we don't respond, they come back and say, ‘you're a whore.’ If we do respond, we get yelled at and called names.