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27-Jul-2016 21:25

In my 30 years of youth and adult ministry experience, this is as unfiltered, direct and honest as a question and answer can be.

It is equally honest to say that nearly nine out of 10 self-proclaimed single Christians are, in practice, sexual atheists.

In other words, God has nothing to say to them on that subject of any consequence or, at least, anything meaningful enough to dissuade them from following their own course of conduct. A person who at once believes in a wise, sovereign and loving God who created them and all things, can also believe simultaneously He should not, cannot or will not inform their thinking or living sexually. If you let the paint mentally dry on the statistic above and the perception about God it reflects for a moment, perhaps my contention of sexual atheism won’t seem so far-fetched.

It reminds me of those famous red letters in Luke’s Gospel where Jesus says, “Why do you call me 'Lord, Lord' and do not do what I say? No amount of hand-wringing at the many-headed hydra of the entertainment world or raucous deploring of immoral political philosophies invading our nation can explain this one.

While Christian singles report praying and church attendance are highly desirable qualities in the dating matrix, a troubling and confusing dichotomy arises when the issue of sex before marriage presents itself.

Specifically, single Christians enter a sexual fog.

Both sexes today, across all ages and Christian demographics, are prone to compartmentalize their faith away from their sexual life.That fog clouds and hides the reality that an identity rooted in Christ should manifest itself in intelligent and hope-filled sexual restraint based on God’s promises and instead replaces it with fear and pride-filled choices based on some other promise they believe more.In a recent study conducted by , Christian singles between the ages of 18 to 59 were asked, “Would you have sex before marriage? Sixty-three percent of the single Christian respondents indicated yes.In a recent study conducted by Christian Mingle.com, Christian singles between the ages of 18 to 59 were asked, “Would you have sex before marriage? Sixty-three percent of the single Christian respondents indicated yes.

( The guy sitting across from me is a professing and practicing Christian.

No, our life in God and for our God reflects our real view of God.