Sikh dating rules
You will find many examples but in the end you are the one who has to decide.Its always better to not to continue when you are not sure. To me my parents are not at all problem in what bride I choose and if you ask me I will go for a western bride.But everybody have their choice; I think if your parents are not accepting her than its their problem not yours and believe me every parents wants their kids to be happy; so in the end they will also accept her; but breaking some human heart just for the sake of marrying other human is not a justice; after all Indian girl and the foreign girl are human being first.And I am surprised that after 3 years of your relationship you are still in this situation and need advice; had you asked before any relationship then it would have made some sense.
the idea of leaving her tears my heart and soul apart but when I think of my culture and language I think it would be better to marry an Indian girl.... when ever im with her I never think of these things - she completely makes me forget of all the problems I have and the world cesses to exist..
I dont really want my kids to be confused about which is there heritage... I have kept our relationship a secret from my parents can someone please give me some advice on what I should do, if anyone especially a guy who has been in my same shoes please respond, I need all the help I can get. I think you have to just sit alone one day and think about pros and cons of it.
I dont know if my parents will accept her - well im almost sure they wont.
She has even said that she would be willing to live a Sikh way of life with me, not that I am very conservative, in fact im quite liberal and open minded.
If I have had a rough day she gives me a back message and brings me a hot cup of tea and just loves me back to point I have a huge smile on my face.
But for the past 8 months or so I have been thinking non stop about what will be of our future together.