You should be getting more men following up if you’re having 3 dates a week.
OK Cupid is like a fun house mirror in that it provides a distorted view of our desirability and attractiveness.
Hate to be the bearing of bad news, but let’s just say that that site isn’t known for attracting men who are terribly picky. Many of those guys are taking you out in the hopes of hooking up. That would explain a good portion of the rejection that you are experiencing.
The debate runs on as to whether or not speed dating as a concept is here to stay, or destined to be replaced the next latest thing.
Five years on, speed dating at Smart Dating UK is still going strong, and still most popular singles event we offer.
If you're a speed dating regular, although you'll become very familiar with the speeddating format, the singles market is always changing, so you'll see new faces each time you attend an event.Comment: Hi, I am wondering if what happens to me is “normal” in the dating world here in NYC. I meet an average of 3 guys per week, which some would consider lucky.That site is heavily populated by folks not terribly interested in anything beyond attention or a casual relationship. I’m going to guess that you’re a quantity over quality person.You go out with pretty much everyone who asks because you like feeling so in demand.
I highly doubt that the majority of men you’re meeting on OK Cupid are actually looking for a relationship. The other contributing factor is probably that you’re disappointing these men somehow.Either your profile is too good and full of embellishments or.dun DUN! While it’s not abnormal to have many one off first dates that lead no where, it is atypical to have many not lead to a second date. Whomever you present online is not translating offline.