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I was just learning how to become a single mother, and an independent woman. My son’s & I lived in a beautiful apartment on a great side of town and my sons school was conveniently around the corner. I ended up getting pregnant with his child, and later losing it. It was fun while it lasted but all good things come to an end. Certainly not the life I lived because I barely drank and never took pills unless prescribed. It didn’t seem as if he was dependent on them, just that he used them to have a good time. So the next night my son’s & I went out to his moms & stayed the night with him.I was working 1 full time job where I had been for the previous 7 years. We loved our location and were ready to start our new life. One night we went out, and after that never talked again until 3 years later. No matter what, after our split, I always had strong feelings for him. In October 2012 I decided, after being unhappy for some time and a huge arguement, that it was best if we separated. 2 days later we found out that he was being released. Left for work the next morning from there and ended up back when I got off. Jeff went in with her and claimed he was using the restroom.It wasn’t healthy for us, our relationship, and most definitely our sons. So what was supposed to be a 15 minute visit turned to a 40 minute visit. At that point I made the decision to dedicate myself to him and only him. His mom and him had gotten into an argument and I offered him to come to my house. I was sitting in the car for a few minutes when I seen him out of my rear view.It’s not what he wanted but it was the decision I had made. I remember sitting there and him coming up to the window. When we left he asked if we could pick his friend’s girlfriend up and take her somewhere. At a time where I was naive and couldn’t put anything together, I let his sobriety slip through the cracks. He was all slumped over and she was helping him to the car.He stumbled into the house and I showed him where my room was so he could lay down.I laid with him and every 10 minutes he was running to the bathroom to puke.
After several times of him feeling like he was gonna puke in my car and making me pull over we finally got home.That was the night he asked me to be his girlfriend.We moved out of our town home November 1st, he to his own apartment, a short distance from us, and my sons & I to a smaller apartment but in the same complex we were currently residing in. She told me that I’d have to drive because he just downed her whole bottle of moonshine.In the beginning of December my cousin’s fiance (Tiffany) informed me that her cousin (Jeff) wanted to start talking to me again. I gave the go ahead that he could start calling me so he did, through his mother, on 3-way. Me not being a stupid person, knew that that wasn’t what had just happened.
In late 2012 my fiance & I of 7 years decided to part ways. My cousin’s fiance introduced me to her cousin back in 2009 when my children’s father and I were having our troubles.
It wasn’t easy because we have 2 sons, but it was what was best for them & us. We hung out for a few month’s and did a lot together.