Think like a man dating advice
"You think if you give him enough cookie, bake it just right, he'll straighten up," he says. "You can't let your independence and your ability to take care of yourself be the dominant factor of who you are," he says. ' Just like you're saying it, you're projecting it. Sex, or "the cookie" as Steve calls it in his book, is a major point of contention for many couples. If you've got everything, you can do everything, you've got your own car ... Instead, he says strong women have to walk a thin line. Move on with your life." How important is sex in a relationship? Many women have long lists that describe what they're looking for in a man..are their standards simply too high? Just relax." Oprah.com: How to act like a lady, think like a man After a few dates, some guys just stop returning calls and texts. Michele found out her boyfriend of many years was cheating after he told her he was ready to settle down and get married. Steve says there are a few major reasons why men stray, though none of them excuse the behavior.Lynell says she's looking for a God-fearing, spontaneous African-American millionaire with straight teeth and nice shoes who wants children...among other things. "I'll be trying to meet him the same time you do." If a woman is serious about her list, Steve says she should ask herself one question before turning down a date. "Without standards, you settle for stuff." Before you get discouraged, Steve reminds women to stay patient and remember that real men aren't afraid of standards and requirements. • There's always a woman out there willing to cheat with him.
Over the years, she's grown tired of coming in second.Steve says the first mistake women like Jill make is thinking they can change their men.