Warning sign of dating violence
In 2007, approximately ten percent of American teens of both sexes reported that being physically hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend sometime during the preceding twelve-month period, according to the Youth Risk Behavior Survey, a comprehensive statistical monitoring project conducted on a biennial basis by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).In the same survey, more than 11 percent of teenaged girls reported that they had, at some point, been forced to engage in sexual intercourse against their will.Because of the long-term effects of dating violence on victims, parents should be aware of the potential for abuse in teen relationships and the signs of an abusive relationship.Teens who experience abuse, whether physical, sexual, or emotional, may find themselves feeling confused and ashamed and unsure of where to turn.It is important for any victim of abuse to understand that he or she is not at fault. The best thing to do is to confide in a parent, teacher, or other trusted adult.If that is not possible, a teen who is experiencing dating violence should turn to her friends for support.Nonetheless, the reality is that many teens who are victims of abuse at the hands of a romantic partner tell no one.
For teens who cannot bring themselves to tell anyone about what they are going through, there are many non-profit organizations and resource centers that are available to help.
Information for Parents Who Fear Their Children May Be Victims of Dating Violence: Before parents know it, their children are adolescents and demonstrating an interest in romantic relationships with their peers.