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Congratulations, Ann, on having the courage to leave a situation that was making you miserable.I must admit, I’ve never fully understood the psychology of abuse – and how people who are objectively treated poorly choose to remain in relationships – but I’m glad you’ve broken free.Sounds to me like your marriage was dying for years and that you’ve already mourned its death.
I should mention I have two small children and I don’t want to rush anything.More importantly, I’m glad that you’re feeling relieved, happy and optimistic about what happens next – that you’re looking forward to your new lease on life, rather than being paralyzed by fear like so many other victims of abuse.Which is why I want to tell you in the kindest, most non-professional way possible, that you can do WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT right now.So if you’re riding the wave of self-love, I couldn’t think of a more opportune time to get back out there and explore your dating options as a single mom.
I just want to ride this wave of optimism because I’ve never felt so confident and lovable before. I don’t have a strong attachment to any man in particular right now.
I just really believe that love may be possible for me after all and I don’t want to quash any potential dates on the basis of some arbitrary rule.