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Here are excerpts from their chat: On the pressure to get married: “[It] feels obvious and maybe silly or something to people who are married or people who are older, people who have been through it. But if you’re a woman in your thirties or forties, that’s a big deal. ’ I was supposed to do a book at the same time and the wedding and the book were happening around the same time. ” On always wanting to be a mother: “I’m one of those people, since I was 5, I could tell you I was going to have kids. I could tell you they were going to be girls,” she says.
Everybody’s asking you all the time if it’s going to happen … It’s a lot like the desire to want to have children in our society. I don’t know what it is; I never wanted to get married.” On dating: “I love having boyfriends. I do not want a husband in my house.” On giving up writing to have a husband: “I have so much going on inside my head in terms of writing, there’s such a large space in my life taken up by that. There may be some people who are doing it and who are very happy and who love it. It’s never been a dream of mine [to be married].” On finally admitting: “It was really freeing to say it out loud. We were on our way from the book party and Stedman said he did not want to have his wedding disturbed by all these people asking me about the book (which I ended up not doing).
You’re supposed to want it, and if you don’t want it, what’s wrong with you? I can’t imagine it being taken up by a husband and children and writing, and everything getting its due. I always felt like it was a dirty little secret.” Oprah Winfrey also shared her thoughts on marriage saying “I don’t know if I’ve ever said this publicly, but I really wanted to be wanted to be married.